How to Tell If You Habitually Make Decisions That Sabotage You (Lessons I Learned from a Taoist Master)

“If you are faced with a choice between this or that, how many choices do you have?” the Master asked. I knew it was a trick question. Every question he asks is a trick question. Mahayana and Zen Buddhists would call them Zen Koans or Riddles. “Three!” I guessed out of my ass. “Four.” the [...]

Harnessing Your Anger and Fear Part One

I just noticed a facebook post by a friend. He said he became angry at his employer and blamed it on his ego. I suppose it could have been the case. However just as often, ego is blamed for healthy anger. That’s correct. I put the two words together. Healthy – Anger. I don’t know [...]