Social Media Marketing Secrets from NYC and Los Angeles | IPhone App Developer » dao http://sparkah.com Social Media Marketing, Viral Marketing, Business, and Life Strategies That Don't Suck (Mostly) Mon, 21 May 2012 10:45:05 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 How to Tell If You Habitually Make Decisions That Sabotage You (Lessons I Learned from a Taoist Master) http://sparkah.com/2010/05/27/the-tao-of-tough-decisions-making-them-wisely-lessons-i-learned-from-a-taoist-master/ http://sparkah.com/2010/05/27/the-tao-of-tough-decisions-making-them-wisely-lessons-i-learned-from-a-taoist-master/#comments Thu, 27 May 2010 12:36:24 +0000 admin http://sparkah.com/2010/05/27/the-tao-of-tough-decisions-making-them-wisely-lessons-i-learned-from-a-taoist-master/

“If you are faced with a choice between this or that, how many choices do you have?” the Master asked.

I knew it was a trick question. Every question he asks is a trick question. Mahayana and Zen Buddhists would call them Zen Koans or Riddles.

“Three!” I guessed out of my ass.


“Four.” the Master said without appearing to have heard my answer at all.

“If you are faced with the choice of a sports car or an economy car, thinking you only have those two options, you choose the sports car. Every time you drive the sports car, you will feel guilty.”

The Master Continued, “If you had chosen the economy car, every time you drive it, you feel frustrated.”


I was dumbfounded.

“Buy both, this is your third choice,” the Master said.

I was as puzzled as I was enlightened. I immediately realized that so many of my life decisions were destined to bring me guilt or frustration from the moment I made a choice. But before I could take the first step down memory lane, the Master hit me with another revelation.


“If you are faced with the choice of a Susan or Sara, thinking those are your only options, you choose Susan. Every moment you are with Susan, you miss Sara. Every discomfort Susan brings you, you resent her. You have already lost Susan and Sara from the moment you made your choice.

In this case, use your fourth option. Choose neither. When true love comes, you will have no choice.”

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OK… So here’s the short scoop. I started out in the dot com in the late 90′s. Professionally, I’m a web guy. But after my last website, I took two years off to do something I’ve always wanted to do… Meditate.

THIS is what I learned about handling idiots and assholes at the office

And yes, I even let my hair grow out. Adds to the experience! =p

If you want to talk, just @journik me on twitter.

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Let’s face it. Meetings are generally a total self-glorification-fest. Everyone comes in with a heart full of gripes they want to spew onto everyone else in the room. If one person hits on a nerve, then everyone transmutes into a mindless zombie mob of vocalized discontent.

If you want to be heard at a meeting, let the frustrated steam of everyone else in the room out first. Then speak your mind.

Nobody wants to eat on a full stomach.

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